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Kink On Tap 18: Where’s the dick?

Posted: December 1st, 2009 | Author: | Filed under: Episodes | 4 Comments »

The Early Show thinks gazing at gay men kissing is a no-no, but doesn’t mind watching lesbians kiss. Also, sex blogger Belle du Jour is a neurotoxicologist, and boys decide to try girls’ school uniforms on for size.

Playboy playmates, anonymous sex blogger call girls, and lesbian celebrities locking lips are all great fun, but where are all the male equivalents? Contrary to popular belief, men and women respond equally strongly to erotic images. So in this episode, say hello to pretty men courtesy of Suraya Singh, editor of Filament Magazine, and Brad Hanon, the only man who keeps his clothes on at Syzygy Magazine. Both of these are publications that focus on the female gaze, featuring literary and visual erotica expressly created for a female audience.

Also, although we took a hiatus from some aspects of the show to focus on KinkForAll Washington DC, we’re delighted to have found a way to log our chat room conversations and are considering adding episode chat room logs to the Kink On Tap Wiki. And speaking of the wiki, don’t forget that you can edit every page there. If you posted a topical link while chatting that we discussed on the show, why not add it to the episode’s show note page? Here are instructions for how to help with show notes.

4 Comments on “Kink On Tap 18: Where’s the dick?”

  1. 1 Maladrina Reymont said at 8:51 am on December 5th, 2009:

    guys passionately kissing is what makes watching gay porn so delightful

  2. 2 maymay said at 8:55 pm on December 5th, 2009:

    guys passionately kissing is what makes watching gay porn so delightful

    I love passionate kissing, but that’s not the selling point for me. It’s the authenticity of the passion that makes such scenes hot. This isn’t limited to gay porn, either. I find scenes depicting authentic enjoyment in straight porn equally delightful, but somehow (at least in my experience) it’s much more difficult to find such authentic depictions among more “mainstream” pornographic outlets.

  3. 3 Follows The Sun » Blog Archive » Radio Oddity - Human Heliotrope said at 4:22 pm on December 17th, 2009:

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  4. 4 Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed › The Internet made me a sexual freedom activist in 2009. Now it’s your turn. said at 12:48 am on January 11th, 2010:

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